For The Right Reasons

If you happen to be reading this, please allow me to ask you some very personal questions. Do you remember the first time you fell in love, your very first kiss or made love to the man or woman of your dreams? While you think about the answers to these questions,ask yourself this what attracted you to this particular man or woman? Was it because you liked their beautiful, smile, smelled  good or nice, had a sexy figure to die for or was it because they were awesome in bed, kissed then touched you in places that never though could be touched and made your toes curl or drove you crazy? Was it because they dressed to impress or because they looked so cool, debonair, sexy or looked great in uniform? Ask yourself this question what made you fall so hard for your first love or the person that you are now secretly in love with and because of it you can't seem to get them off of your mind, because they now have your heart? What made you marry your husband, wife or commit to your significant other and are you really with them, thinking of or about them , For The Right Reasons?

As you think about your answers to these questions, one should always keep in mind , while looks, great sex or money is good or healthy for any marriage or relationship its not the main thing or the reason's that will keep it together. Without honesty, trust, real passion, forgiveness, ability to admit when they are wrong or say they are sorry and have the will or desires to over look their partners faults or imperfection's no marriage or relationship will survive or make it. Besides everything that you have read today never forget that one must love and support their spouse or mate through the good times as well as the bad . Which means if your spouse happens to get sick, loose their job, has a mental break down or just simply wants to talk, then you should be there and do everything possible to help heal them or to get them back on their feet. If you aren't willing to do whatever it takes, to keep your man or woman happy or satisfied, then maybe you aren't in your marriage or relationship For The Right Reasons and you should reevaluate your situation. Before anyone gets into any relationship or even think about getting married one must always have this thought in mind real love is more than a physical feeling, its mental and if you aren't trying or thinking of a way to be with them always then it isn't really love, in fact its only lust. If your heart isn't whispering these words to your mind, when you think or have thoughts of the person you love(This man or woman is the one and my life feels complete when I am with them) then you aren't in your relationship or marriage, For The Right Reasons and it will fail. Before anyone falls or says that they are in love it should only be, For The Right Reasons. Write in the express your thoughts or views on the subject.
Chuck