If They Won't Love You Back

Have you ever been in a relationship or marriage where the person you love and care about won't or refuse to do their part? Won't help out with the chores or help around the house, won't help pay the bills, won't get a job, won't stay out of trouble, won't stop drinking, cursing or being negative and worse than that, no matter what or how you try do it, they won't love you back? Its sad when you are the one that's always affectionate, passionate about what you do and the only one in the relationship or marriage that's willing to go the extra mile just to keep you both together. Funny how you are the one that's always wrong, but they are always right. Sometimes you find yourself apologizing for something you didn't do wrong just to keep the peace. Despite what you do for them or how hard you try, they refuse to treat you right and you find yourself asking this question often, "What will I do, If They Won't Love You Back?"

What's sad is that these very same men or women that are so ungrateful, very mean spirited, abusive or sometimes evil, are the same people we love with all our hearts and we put up with them just to have someone to love. These men or women drive you crazy, have your head or heart hurting, praying, stressed out and sometimes they have you almost in tears. But you can't seem to make yourself do the obvious whats best for yourself," which is to leave, so that you could one day find peace, love and happiness for yourself. Sounds simple right, pick up, leave, move on, start a new live and start over? Crazy but that loving heart of yours , maybe your mixed up mind or lustful body(because the sex is so dam good!) refuses to let them go. That's when your heart and mind are at war within you, cause the Heart wants to love despite the hurt or pain, while the Mind wants to protect the heart from being broken for the sake of the Body. While you complain to yourself or to others, your own mind tries to reason with you, by saying and pleading with you, If They Won't Love You Back, then its time to move on and let go. If They Won't Love You Back, maybe its their way of saying its not meant to be and you should really move on. Especially, If They Won't Love You Back. Please write in and share your thoughts or opinions on the subject.
Chuck