Whats funny about life, is that sometimes many things never get solved or resolved and some very important heart felt questions go unanswered. Which could cause a pause in your life, for the simple fact of not knowing. Not knowing where to turn, where to go, to start over with someone new or not to, to wait until things are eventually resolved or figured out. These are just some of the things a man or woman has to go through, while they are trying to figure out their true path in the world especially when it come to our love life. Sometimes its not as simple as being financially sound, having a great job, nice home, car and family. Because the main thing that's missing, is not just the other half such as a good man or woman, but the right man or woman that truly completes them and makes them happy. Its been said that you could be with or marry anyone but you could only give your heart and soul to the one you love. Lots of men or women happen to be great actors or pretenders and they get in relationships just because they are lonely. Then latter put on a show in front of their co-workers, friends or family, saying that they have found the right one or in love. When underneath they are hurting inside, because they can't or won't be with the one they truly love and want. Funny right, that most or some people just won't admit to themselves that its better to be involved with someone you love than with someone you don't. As my late grandmother would put say, its better to have love than to have not loved at all. Undertones, is when one afraid to admit whats in plain site, the obvious or whats right in front of them. You can lie to almost anyone, but you can't lie to yourself. Undertones where something fly above or below our radar. Write in then express your thoughts or views on the subject.