How Do You Know If Someone Loves You?

If you are in a relationship or a marriage, sometimes its very hard or difficult, not to let the outside world in or allow some deep inner feelings or thoughts within yourself, that my have you questioning yourself or doubting your relationship status. You could be blessed with a very good man or woman and not even know or be aware of it. That may also make you  question, if  they are really the right man or woman you should be involved with. Or you may say to yourself that, they just like the many other bad men or women that you may have experienced in your lifetime. Being that many of us have had our share of bad relationships or marriages and have had our share of heartaches , most of us are scared to love or trust again. One may question why get involved with someone if you are not willing to give the new person or new relationship the benefit of doubt? Why get into something new or fresh  if you are always thinking or talking about your past heartaches or pain ? I would say to those that are in a new relationship or marriage, to stop living in the past and to  reclaim your life.  I would also say that by living in your past and holding on to past memories only hurts or harms your current relationship or marriage. What everyone  must realize is that when you are starting a new relationship, you are in fact starting something new and it should not have to be judged or prejudged, by what happened to you in your past. After a bad relationship or marriage everyone deserves a fresh start or a new beginning.

 There is an ancient Chinese  proverb  that I really love it says," In order to move forward, one must leave the past behind". What this statement means to me is your past is history , its only to be revisited for learning privileges and should not be used, to pass judgement on your current friendship, relationship or marriage. People should learn from their past and not repeat their past mistakes. They should take the good experience's from their past , then apply them to their current situation and leave the past or bad memories behind. Also they must stop punishing themselves or stop punishing their new man or woman because of their past hurts or pains. Every bad relationship or marriage shouldn't leave us bitter, but make us stronger more determine and better than we were before. Which means better men, women, communicators, lovers and help-mates.

How do you know if your man or woman loves you? If you happen to question your relationship status then you should ask yourself these series of questions. Does your man or woman   compliment you, without you asking for a compliment? Do they cook, clean, wash , provide you  financially or attend to any of your needs without you even asking them to do it? Do they show that they  care about your feelings or concerns? Do they put up with your bad attitude, ways (Because all of us have them) or bad moods and still love you the same? Are they forgiving of you ,when you have mistreated them or said something you should not have out of anger? Do they try to console you when you are hurt or when you have been mistreated by a co-worker, family or friends ?Do they wine or dine you and take you out to a movie or out of town? Spend time with you, text, e-mail or even call you just to say I am thinking about you or to say I love you? Do they surprise you with sweet words or words of wisdom?Will they do almost anything to keep a smile on your face and when they are with you do they give you their all without holding back? Do they both love and honor your children or family? Are they loving ,supportive, caring, kind, understanding and God-fearing? Chances are if you have said yes to at least three of these questions, then in fact you do have someone who  loves you ,cares about you and your feelings. Also just by asking yourself this question you might already know that you have someone special and you are now trying to figure out how to keep them in your life. How Do You Know If Someone Loves You? If their actions matches their words. Write in then express your thoughts or feelings on the subject.
Chuck